Brain Development in Breastfeed Babies & Nursing Toddlers

4This article has some interesting findings on the benefits of nursing babies and how it impacts their brains from the very start. It also touches on the shown benefits of nursing a child past one year in age.

Many times I've had parents ask how long they "should" nurse and the correct answer is there is no "should" in nursing! It's truly whatever is best for mom and baby, recognizing that the nursing relationship needs to be supported by the entire family unit as well. But evidence is now showing that ANY amount of breastmilk is beneficial to a baby even if it's the colostrum of the first couple days or a couple years of milk. Research is also showing evidence that nursing benefits last a life time, and nursing past a year IS beneficial for children.

So remember, nursing should continue as long as mutually beneficial and breastmilk doesn't ever stop benefitting your baby.

(Photo by the lovely Mae Burke of me nursing my 21 month old explorer.)

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Breast Pump Options

I'm often asked about pumps and wanted to share some resources. I am NOT an IBCLC so please take what I say under advisement - your pumping needs may vary so it's always good to chat with the professionals. This is coming from a fellow pumping mom, though I have tried lots of options. 🙂

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Your OWN Baby Photos!

untitled (1 of 1)Do you have photos from when you were a baby? I recently ran across a photo of me at the hospital with my mother as well as these photos of my parents with me, I presume on my blessing day. My father missed my birth due to a military exercise taking him away from home - he was on the road on the way back when I was born, due to a mix up in communications he had carefully lined up to notify him when my mom was in labor. It was neat for me to see these photos from 36 years ago, in part to see how my own babies resemble me but also to see what my parents looked like when I was born. Admittedly in the day-to-day business of life we may pause long enough to get photos of our own children, but how often do we make sure that WE are included in the photos? And do we consider what a priceless gift that will be to our children when they are grown? I LOVE seeing these images of my parents when they were young parents! I'm thrilled that we have photos with each of our brand new babies, and that we were able to have photographers capture literally the first time we held some of our babies. What about you? Have you gone back through the family records to find photos of you as a baby? Go look for them! 🙂

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Nursing Babies & General Anesthesia

Sometimes little ones need to undergo general anesthesia for special surgeries or procedures, and often parents are told the baby must fast from midnight on the night before. This is NOT accurate for breastmilk, and we had that discussion at length when one of ours needed a procedure done.

This link provides the pre-operative guidelines from the American Society of Anesthesiologists. While many websites do include the recommendation (babies can have breastmilk until 4 hours pre-surgery) having it printed out and showing it to our care provider in advance of the surgery and then again at our pre-op visit quickly squashed any protests from nurses and staff.

Also remember that you will usually be asked to arrive at the surgery location 2 hours before the scheduled procedure, so you can nurse until 2 hours before you leave home (not 4 hours.) That's 2 extra hours that you can comfort your little one!

While I hope you don't need that, it's important to know if you, clients, or friends or family have a little one needing surgery. It's scary and stressful enough for parents to deal with that situation without having to also withhold nursing from a tired, scared, hungry little one. I hope that will help ease the stress of at least one family!

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Family Photos of My Little Ones!

untitled (2 of 4)It's been 2.5 years since we had family photos taken, back when our littlest was 3 weeks old. I finally felt ambitious enough to get new pictures taken and thankfully my sister is a professional photographer who is ambitious enough to try and capture my six kids on camera!

untitled (1 of 4)Our previous photos had been more formal, we were all dressed up and had a tiny new baby in her white blessing gown. I love them, but I wanted to go for a different feel with these pictures. Our family has certainly grown and changed in the last couple years and I wanted to capture our current dynamic - the playfulness, the adventures, the fun and craziness of life with six very ACTIVE kids. We spend a lot of time these days at parks and on hikes, having picnics and exploring. My sister suggested we capture that element, and we picked a day when we were also celebrating our oldest daughter's 10th birthday. We had cupcakes, balloons, a quilt that my children's great-grandmother made for their father, and cousins behind the camera helping keep our kids focused in the general vicinity of the lens. 🙂

I let the kids each pick their favorite color and we found shirts, threw on some denim shorts, and basically went barefoot! It was a fun day and a fun experience and we're thrilled with what Rebecca caught for us. These are two of my favorites which I've also used to update the pictures on my bio pages.

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The Intimacy of Birth – Different Roles

I was reflecting this week on the different roles I have when attending births - doula, photographer, or midwife assistant. Each role is unique, but there's a level of intimacy with all of them.

As a birth photographer I generally meet with the couple before the birth, then we stay in touch as they get closer to term. I join them once active labor is established and remain a couple hours postpartum. Depending on circumstances and location I may see them once again to deliver their CD (though now I give them a flash drive!) For clients further away I may mail it to them or deliver files by Dropbox, so after their birth we may not see each other again. (A perk of working mostly in my own town, I do get to see clients and their sweet babies around town! I also invite them to attend my baby park dates.)

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The Opinion of Your Doula

BetterBirthDoula.orgWhen I am hired to be someone's doula I work very hard to get to know them. I want to know their birth hopes, wishes, plans - how they envision their birth. I learn about their health history & their emotional journey that brought them to this point. I ask why they decided to hire a doula, what special concerns they may have, what their fears are. If I've not worked with their careprovider and birth location then I research those as well. When they have family or friends attending the birth I ask about them. I want to know as much as possible to best support them through their birth experience.

I also remind my clients that I am their doula - and my opinion doesn't matter. I'm not there to judge or boss you around, I don't have an agenda for how I want your birth to go (beyond what you tell me you are hoping for!) I'm not going to tell you what decisions to make. I'll remind you of your birth hopes, I'll help you remember your questions for your care provider, I'll ask you if you have more questions as a gentle hint before they leave the room, I'll take notes for you! But I don't even have the authority to speak to hospital staff for you (beyond asking them to let me back into the refreshments room to get you more juice or heat up the rice pack for you.) At a birth my opinion does NOT matter. I'm there for you. If you tell me you want something then I'm going to verify that's what you want (especially if it's something different from what we've previously discussed) and then I'm going to help you get it. Period. Maybe you told me you wanted one thing during the pregnancy and you changed your mind during labor? Cool! Let's make it happen! I will double check with you, but then I'm going to roll with it. That's my job. Continue reading

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Baby Park Date Spring 2013!

BetterBirthDoula.orgThese are some of the sweet babies who attended the park date last weekend. I was at all of their births, and they range in age from a few weeks old to one cutie pie turning ONE the day we got together. There were four other babies in attendance whose births I witnessed but they were asleep/being worn/in their carseat when I thought to snap pictures so I missed one with them, but I hope to do these at least a few times a year so I'll snag them next time. It's a wonderful opportunity for me to catch up with my families, see their adorable babies growing, and for families to connect with each other. I made sure to invite the childbirth classes I taught over the last year and half, my doula and birth photography clients, as well as a local Baby Ladies group (some of whom I birth assisted for at the local birth center.) I set a date and location and baked some goodies, brought fruit and blankets, and then enjoyed the visit.

Doulas, set up a reunion for your families! When I was still a very new doula it was a small enough group I hosted a baby brunch in my home. Then as my client group grew I moved it to a park nearby, but whatever works best for you - reach out to your families!

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New Header for Doula Group

BetterBirthDoula.orgThere's a group of doulas I know well and trust to use as my referrals and back ups. I wanted to create a landing page for our links so when I'm booked I can quickly send out a link and have their bios and websites all in one spot. Today I updated the header for the page and it's so cute I wanted to share it - these are three babies from some of my birth so far this year. It was also good practice for me to try and throw together a quick collage, and thanks to my husband I am slowly learning more of my editing software. 🙂 (Photo editing is one thing, making re-sized photo collages is something I'm still learning more about.)

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Family Centered Cesarean Video

More explanation for how a cesarean can be done to ensure mom witnesses the birth (if she desires), has immediate skin-to-skin with her baby, and can even nurse in the OR!

And a family centered cesarean at a local hospital in the DFW area:

Uriah Nehemiah from Ceci Jane on Vimeo.

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