Fresh New Baby – B&W vs. Color

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Almost always my photos are in a customized black & white I set up in LightRoom, but I try to include for parents at least a couple photos of their new baby in color. Many moms are curious about what color their baby was, and it's so unique to see a FRESH new baby (often a bit purple or blue!) then just moments later they pink right up. (Neonatal Resuscitation Provider training explains in more detail that babies can take up to 10 minutes after birth to reach appropriate oxygen saturation levels, but if parents aren't warned that colorful new baby can make them nervous!) This baby was just a few minutes old and had just gone from the labor pool to bed for some cuddles with mom.

I loved both of these photos for different reasons, and baby's color was so beautiful that I wanted to share each. Which do you prefer? And aren't mom's orange nails fun?

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Birth Team

BetterBirthDoula.orgIt was good the blessingway was Sunday night, because Tuesday night we all got the call that it was time for Girls' Night Part II: Welcoming the Baby! And truly, this birth felt like such a fun celebration - with great snacks, laughter and tears, hysterically funny stories (the poor mom kept having her laughter interrupted with contractions!) and a sweet spirit of friendship to welcome this beautiful new baby into the world. I was honored to be part of her birth team, as I know and love each of these women. From left to right - me (photographer), Abbie (her midwife), Shannon (amazing momma!), Tonya (her doula, also MY doula), and Maria (midwife assistant.) Thanks to her husband, Mark, for taking the picture for us - usually I'm the one taking the pictures. 🙂 I'll be sharing more photos from her birth soon.

And as a side note - all of us are doulas, which always makes for some entertaining discussions!

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Henna at the Blessingway

During the blessingway a friend decorated the expectant momma's belly and the ladies did a few decorations on each other. (I have an anklet.) I smile and think of that sweet baby on the way every time I see it!

While you can hire a professional henna artist, you can also purchase these henna packets at Indian or other middle eastern markets and try it yourself! We found pattern inspiration online and if you make a mistake quickly use a wet cloth to erase and start over. The guest decorating momma's belly had just the day before had her own shower and belly done, and she was told to make sure the henna dries completely then cover the area with medical tape and leave it on until your next bath or shower. Take it off then (it will take the henna paste with the tape) and coat the area with olive oil before the shower. Henna can last a week or two depending on the location and type.

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Here's the belly art:

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This is the henna paste in case you're looking for it!

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Bizarre Baby Food for the Blessingway!

A doula-birth photographer friend had her blessingway tonight, and inspired by the bizarre baby shower cakes we've seen online we decided to go with some cute - and creepy - food ideas!

First, the cute (before I scare you away!) -

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Now... onto the creepy - Continue reading

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Sweet Sisters Snuggling

www.BetterBirthDoula.orgAs a midwife assistant we have clients sign a media release so we can post a family photo but we usually take it with our camera phone. I offered to take one instead with a real camera, but shot a few more. The big sister snuggled up in bed with her new baby sister and fell asleep in the pre-dawn hour - sweet moment!

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So I Nursed Him Every 45 Minutes

As a new mom with a frequent nurser and high needs child I found great comfort in this article by a mom and dad about nursing their baby as needed. If you are struggling with the exhaustion of the newborn stage then I encourage you to read it! And let me know what you think, feel free to email me or leave a comment about how you feel about this article!

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Our New “Baby”

DogOur family's pet experience has been limited to hamsters & a fish. We've not ventured into a more high needs animal because I was feeling busy and overwhelmed taking care of our human babies. Well, just last week we decided to welcome a new addition - Phil, the dog. Phil's a girl. 🙂 Her real name is Phyllis, and we've adopted her from a fellow doula friend. We were curious how she would respond to being in a home with six very active little ones but it's safe to say that she's flourishing! Our goal was to find a dog with a temperament suited to becoming a therapy dog, both for our own children's benefit and so we could volunteer in the community with our therapy dog. (Our children have enjoyed reading to therapy dogs at the local library this summer - which certainly influenced our decision!) This photo is Phil visiting with three of my doula babies, and she was so patiently laying near them while they loved on her. We've enjoyed welcoming our new family member!

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Siblings

www.BetterBirthDoula.orgA perk of attending the birth for a repeat client? I can create this - the top photo is a sweet baby girl whose family hired me when I was a newly certified doula. The bottom two photos are her new twin brothers! It was a blessing for me to be able to witness all three babies enter the world - and so much fun to see the similarities (and differences) in these little ones. Being asked to join a family as they welcome a new baby is an enormous privilege - being asked to come back again is an overwhelming honor.

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Energy Balls for Pregnancy, Labor & Lactation! (Vegan & GF Free)

www.BetterBirthDoula.orgEnergy Bites:
1 cup oats (quick oats, verify they are GF if you or baby have sensitivity)
1/2 cup peanut butter or almond butter
1/3 cup honey
1 cup coconut
1/2 cup mini chocolate chips (chop up a vegan chocolate bar if baby has dairy sensitivity)
1/2 cup ground flax seed
1 tsp vanilla

Mix it together and let it sit in the fridge for 30 minutes or so, then roll into balls. You can freeze or store in fridge. Store some for labor, and snack on some while nursing! Minus the brewer's yeast these are similar to the lactation cookies.

Smoothies for Pregnancy & Lactation are here.

Update: My kids have fallen in love with chia seeds and they can also be added to this recipe, about 2 tablespoons. This add some extra protein, fiber, and omega-3s to your energy balls!

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Happy Father’s Day 2013!!

untitled (1 of 1)Most of these images are the very first time these men held their new baby. Some are first time fathers, some are welcoming their fourth! And each has the same adoring gaze as they see their tiny child enter the world. I love being able to capture these moments for families. So often a new mom is quite occupied the first time the baby is passed to her partner to hold, and being able to later let her see that special moment is priceless.

Happy Father's Day!!

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