Happiness is a direction, not a place.
— Sydney J. Harris
Inspiration
Grandmoms | Denton Birth Photography
When grandmothers are at a birth I always try to capture their first interactions with their new grandbaby - as you can see, they are precious!
Benefits of Breastfeeding Handout
This is a fantastic summary of the benefits of breastfeeding for babies & mommies! Sometimes families may not understand how wonderful breastmilk is, and sharing this list may help them learn more and be better supportive of nursing moms.
May Baby Rush 2012 – Fourth Arrival | Denton Birth Photography
This little one has quite the story, and I don't know if my heart will ever quite beat the same! It was one of the funnest labors I've ever been to - laughter, stories, walks, sunshine, family & friends, chocolate croissants! There was great music, dancing, and many smiles. This sweet mom worked so very, very hard to bring her little one safely into the world - she gave it her all, and her wonderful husband was supporting her every step of the way. I was honored to be part of their special day, and humbled to witness again the challenge and miracle of birth.
May Baby Rush 2012 – Third Arrival | Denton Birth Photography
This little one came out with arms shooting up into the air, as if announcing her presence to the world - HERE I AM!!! It was such a joyous, victorious pose as she was met with cheers and laughter. This was only the third time I've been at a birth where the baby's gender was a surprise - always a fun announcement to hear.
It never ceases to amaze me how alert baby's are just after birth. Their eyes are wide open as if they're trying to take in the world, but when they are tucked up against the familiar scent of their mother and hear her soothing voice they seem so at peace. Especially when they are nursing and gazing up, as if they are awed to discover the face connected to the voice they've grown to love over the past nine months.
Story Behind the Photo | Denton Birth Photography
This photo was captured by our fantastic doula, Tonya. As my labor was puttering along and I went to nap everyone else was advised to grab lunch - then things kicked up FAST and our birth photographer was caught in traffic racing back. I'm so thankful that our doula grabbed our camera and captured this moment for us - it's a priceless reminder to me, and why I include photos in my doula package. 🙂
Pretty Pushers Labor Gowns
Have you seen the oh-so-cute Pretty Pushers gowns? I was intrigued, and this weekend I had not one but TWO moms birth back to back wearing these gowns - one hospital, one birth center.
Things I love - ties in front over their belly for easy access for monitoring (belts with EFM or hand held doppler for birth center.) The low back is designed to allow epidural access when necessary, but in general it's great for those moms getting hot in transition! The neck lifts over or unties for skin-to-skin right after the birth but mom can also wear it around postpartum and have easy nursing access.
The one warning - because it is designed to be disposable it's untrimmed, lightweight fabric and thus not super durable. It is washable, for moms wanting to take it home and use it with the next baby! But if you don't want to pack it up and it's stained then you can just toss it. So that's a pro/con depending on your view!
I'll follow up with both new moms to ask them their thoughts on the gowns, too. Here are some photos of the front & back views from those recent births. Some moms say they're happy in the hospital gown (or nothing!) and others have told me what they wore really influenced how they felt while they were laboring, so they love having options like this. What did you wear during labor?
Update: After attending a few births with other clothing options I better appreciated the ease of this gown. The mothers were covered discretely but could easily nurse and do skin-to-skin. When family came into the room it allows them to again cover up if they felt more comfortable that way. Unlike laboring in a regular dress, the gown allows for discrete access from the front to monitor rather than having to pull the entire gown up to let the care provider listen to the baby's heart tones. I wondered if the moms would feel the gown was too chilly with the open back but both said they felt so hot in transition that the open design felt good. The one concern expressed by a mom was the very light weight material didn't feel durable, but it also felt great as it kept her cool.
A couple recently mentioned they were looking at labor gown options but the prices ($60+) were making them hesitate. When I showed them the Pretty Pushers they were thrilled at the price and how much thought clearly went into the design.
Disclosure - Pretty Pushers did not request this review, I simply love the product and am happy to share this option with parents! 🙂
Inspiration
Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
— Jean Anouilh
May Baby Rush 2012 – Second Arrival | Denton Birth Photography
This little one was actually fifth in the line-up but decided it was her turn and she wanted to come second. The first birth this week I was heading to the hospital at 2am and was home just after 5am - I know, fast! This time I hit the hospital at 3am and was home just after 6am. Same room even, beautiful births both times! Despite her earlier than anticipated arrival this sweet girl was adorably chubby with a head of thick, wavy dark hair. Her parents' joy at first seeing her face brought tears to my eye - and her big sister was eager to race over and meet her despite the early hour! Welcome to the world, Little One!!
May Baby Rush 2012 – First Arrival | Denton Birth Photography
I think this moment, the first time you hold your baby snuggled against your chest, is forever captured in our memories as mothers. Whether it's immediately after birth or a bit later (as it sometimes necessary due to circumstances) we treasure that moment.
This little one had us all guessing for weeks about when he would decide to arrive. He took his sweet time but when it was time, he came in a rush! Thankfully the roads are empty at 2am and I made it before he did. 🙂 The doctor, on the other hand, almost didn't make it!