Testimonials

Sometimes there is a misunderstanding of what a doula is and in what ways she helps. A doula can be beneficial for any birth situation - home, birth center, hospital, vaginal, or cesarean. I've been fortunate to work with families in each of these cases, and while my specific tasks may vary from one situation to the next my role is always to help support the parents in THEIR birth choices:

“Heidi was wonderful with the hospital staff and since she knew exactly what I wanted for this birth from our meetings she was able to help me communicate my birth plan and wishes when I was unable to do so myself. I had never considered a doula with my other births because I thought doulas were only for people having homebirths with midwives but I was SO wrong! If we have anymore children Heidi is on the top of the list of people we call first!” – Katie

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Inspiration

Genuine listening means suspending memory, desire, and judgment — and, for a moment at least, existing for the other person. — Michael P. Nichols

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First Baby Brunch!

Looking at the lovely new program Kit set up for me to hold all my client data (more on that later) I realized I had a lot of first time moms who lived in town and birthed this spring. I had several from out of town and several who had older children, too - someday I hope to host a gathering with EVERYONE but I didn't want to overwhelm the new babies with such a big group - this group photo is half the babies whose births I've attended since certifying last October. I know how challenging it can be as a first time mom to connect with other moms and get out of the house, so I wondered if they would be interested in gathering at my place for a little baby brunch. I sent out the email and within the hour had responses from almost everyone! They were as excited as I was, and this morning we all got together - nine moms & a dad, 8 babies, and two on the way. (Though we missed a couple moms who couldn't make it, hopefully next time.) I set a window of time as I know getting out of the house with a baby is unpredictable, so moms came and went as their schedule (and baby's needs) allowed. Kit took our kids out to run errands as I didn't want my little ones loving on the new babies too much! It was also neat to see how many of my clients know each other, through church, work, childbirth class, etc. I had so much fun, I loved being able to snuggle on these sweet babies again, talk with the parents, and introduce them to each other! I'm already planning to do this again in the fall when some new arrivals can join us and next time we'll do it on a Saturday morning so hopefully the dads will also be able to attend. Looking at these photos and realizing I was at the birth of each of these babies?? It feels humbling and amazing - I feel incredibly blessed to be part of their special day. Thank you to everyone who came!!!

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Testimonials | Denton Birth Photography

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Story Behind the Photo | Denton Birth Photography

Though I didn't notice it as I snapped this moment, the tear in her eye says it all.

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Inspiration

We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. — Joseph Campbell

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HAPPY FATHER’S DAY 2012!!

I am constantly awed by the love, encouragement, and admiration fathers show for their wives at birth. You dads are truly the most incredible source of support for your wives, and I love being able to help you support her!

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Story Behind the Photo | Denton Birth Photography

I was blown away at how much this hospital went out of their way to welcome me into the OR - from holding off on starting the cesarean to giving me free access to shoot, they were wonderful. As you can see in this photo I'm by the mom's feet, not an area they generally let you wander during surgery! As the baby was being born the anesthesiologist dropped the screen and encouraged me to stand up so that (at mom's request) I could photograph the actual moment of birth and the baby's first stretch and yell! It was a beautiful experience.

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Inspiration

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. — Thornton Wilder

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Wedding Doula Fun

Today my baby sister married an amazing man and I am so very, very happy for them both. I knew it was going to take one incredible guy to ever win over my sister's heart but this man is just as talented, intelligent, funny, thoughtful, sweet, silly, and special as she is. Seeing her face as they exchanged their vows will stay in my memory for always. And I was lucky enough to be her wedding doula, to accompany her throughout the day and drive them to their ceremony (and I insisted we listen to, "Going to the Chapel!" on the way) and help her get into her beautiful gown. My cheeks hurt from smiling, and there were so many tears of joy.

Congratulations to you both and we love you so much!

(Photo is them exiting after the ceremony to big cheers!!)

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