Doula Services

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1. Jessica Whiteley says:

   September 14, 2012 at 4:46 pm

   Hi Heidi,
   Thanks so much for your amazing website and all that you share! I am currently in a training to beome a birth doula in Boston, MA. I am doing a training that is a bit far from where I live so I haven’t been able to connect/meet other new doulas. I am wondering if you had any suggestions for new doulas who are trying to connect with other doulas. I am a fourth grade teacher so my schedule is somewhat less forgiving than other jobs might be. Have you known any doulas who also worked full time jobs? I am thinking that I could share call with other doulas in my area, but I’m not sure if it would be too bold or aggressive to ask if anyone wanted to go into a partnership together. Just thought you might have some suggestions and although you’re not in the Boston area at all, I figured I’d check with you anyhow. Thanks so much for your time.

   Best,
   Jessica Whiteley

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   • heidi says:

     September 15, 2012 at 8:03 pm

     Jessica, congrats on starting this exciting doula journey!

     I do know doulas working full time in addition to their doula work. It can be tricky, as obviously you have to coordinate around your other employment schedule or have a VERY flexible employer! The doulas with children at home are often juggling to find the best childcare arrangements as well. Life on call is a balancing act!

     It’s not too bold at all to contact others and suggest a partnership. In our area there’s one large doula network online through which there are social events, training programs announced, etc. There are also some smaller co-op or business groups arranged. One shares a website, marketing and some resources but each doula is booked independently. Another has an overseeing board and doulas spread across the area so people can be matched up somewhat geographically, though of course finding the right fit is more important than distance. I’m part of an informal group of doulas working as back ups for each other & getting together for brunches to discuss situations, brainstorm, and encourage each other. It started out simply from me searching for doulas in the area, getting to know them a bit through email, phone or online groups, then inviting them over for brunch. We started small and slowly added as we connected with others. We each work independently, but the network is invaluable! Whether you formalize an ongoing partnership with other doulas or not, the back up relationship is important for peace of mind – for you and your clients.

     So I would say go for it! I found local doula groups on Facebook & Yahoo, and I’m sure there are many in Boston. Our DFW Doula group has around 200 members last I checked. Get to know the others online and then by proposing an evening or weekend gathering at a cafe or restaurant. See who you feel a connection with and focus on building a back up relationship. Then see how things feel and consider formalizing a partnership.

     I hope that helps!

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